Powerful Films Capture the Breadth of Support 'Shared Lives' Can Provide

This Shared Lives Week we’re pleased to share a series of powerful films from South East Wales Shared Lives, bringing real experiences to life, offering an honest and inspiring glimpse into what happens when people share their lives and homes. The videos feature people supported through Shared Lives, Shared Lives carers, and scheme workers, each reflecting on the impact Shared Lives has had on their lives.

Shared Lives schemes bring together people who need support with Shared Lives carers to share home, family and community life. Across Wales and the UK, Shared Lives continues to help people achieve greater independence, confidence and connection.

“Together – we are Shared Lives!”

 Gemma – an introduction to Shared Lives

“We don’t just provide care, we create families, friendships and communities that thrive together.”

Gemma, a Shared Lives Worker highlights the importance of having the right support to build confidence and live life on your own terms. Shared Lives creates opportunities for people to pursue their goals while remaining connected to a supportive home environment.

Watch Gemma's film: https://youtu.be/oHvKssYDQlg (embed)

Mikaela's story

Mikaela, a Shared Lives carer and Mum of three, shares her experiences of life with Shared Lives and the positive impact that personalised support can have on wellbeing, independence and everyday life. Her story is a reminder that the best outcomes are often achieved through genuine relationships and a strong sense of belonging.

“They’ve [the people she supports] become an essential part of our family and my children are growing up knowing that everyone is unique and that’s absolutely normal.”

Watch Mikaela's story: https://youtu.be/rklzmWkw104 (embed)

Paul and Richard's story

“We’ve become a family.”

Paul and Richard, twins supported by Shared Lives carer Tina, talk about sadly losing their family carer during the pandemic, and the transition into Shared Lives. Present day, their mental and physical health is better. Their story reflects the mutual trust, friendship and shared experiences that are at the heart of Shared Lives.

Watch Paul and Richard's story: https://youtu.be/AjWGs1q-yUk (embed)

Rama, Rajia and Rizwana's story

This moving film celebrates family and community. Rama and Rajia are neighbours, and both open up their homes to support people. They share their experiences of Shared Lives and the way it creates opportunities for people to thrive while maintaining the connections that matter most to them.

“If you’re interested in becoming a carer, you don’t need prior experience. Shared Lives provide all the training and support you need.”

Watch Rama, Rajia and Rizwana's story: https://youtu.be/t6X2gF3DaU8 (embed)

Steve and Steven's story

“Becoming a Shared Lives carer has changed my life for the better.”

Steve, a Shared Lives carer and Steven, the person he supports, demonstrate how Shared Lives is built on everyday relationships and shared experiences. Their story highlights the value of companionship, trust and encouragement in helping people achieve their ambitions and enjoy life to the fullest.

Watch Steve and Steven's story: https://youtu.be/HbWh23GYP0Q (embed)

Caroline's story

Caroline, a Shared Lives carer and previous foster carer offers a personal perspective on the difference that Shared Lives can make. She supported Alicia as a foster carer from the age of 6, and together they’ve transitioned to Shared Lives now Alicia is an adult. Their experiences show the confidence, security and opportunities that can grow from having the right support around you.

“I would recommend it to anybody; it’s the best thing we’ve ever done.”

Watch Caroline's story: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=26bdicKVxp0N (embed)

Nikita – Shared Lives for people living with mental ill health

“I have so much stability here and security.”

Nikita's story reflects the transformative power of being valued, included and supported as an individual going through recovery from mental ill health. Her journey demonstrates how Shared Lives support people to re-build the life they want following a mental health crisis.

Watch Nikita's story: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=auWBkPqUFz4 (embed)

The power of real stories

These films reveal the difference that sharing home, family and community life can make, whether that means developing independence, building confidence, making new connections or simply feeling that you belong.

We are grateful to everyone involved in creating and sharing these films. By telling their stories, they are helping more people understand the impact of Shared Lives and inspiring others to consider becoming carers, seeking support through Shared Lives, or championing it in their own local area.

If you’re interested in becoming a Shared Lives carer visit www.startyoursharedlife.today